Date coaching
really works
Jenna, 30, Social Media Expert / Manager (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)Jenna and Joey, Married 11/26/2021
I never thought I needed a dating coach. I was a twenty-something enjoying life, having fun with my family and friends and dating, but never finding the RIGHT one. After many failed dates, swipes and relationships, convinced by my girl gang, I embarked on my journey with Julianne. I am forever grateful for my coaching experience with Julianne. I never thought I needed a coach because I never really knew how I deserved to be treated until I worked with Julianne. I made excuses for boyfriends (and even bad friends); I didn't stand up for myself and let bad behavior go on for far too long. Julianne helped me identify bad behaviors and the positive behaviors I needed to look for in a man. She helped me gain confidence and that I needed to let love into my life. After hard work, dedication, tears, butterflies (all the emotions), I am now in a happy and healthy relationship with an amazing man who treats me how I deserve to be treated. As Julianne says, he treats me like I’m gold! Without Julianne's coaching and guidance, I would have never met him. I am indebted to Julianne. She empowered me to be the confident woman I am today and helped me find the happiness I have been hoping for and deserve.
D. 43, Optometrist (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)Married 11/28/22!
After years of making poor choices in partners, it was clear I had to make a change. I contacted Julianne about Matchmaking because I thought it might be a more effective approach. I had already worked with a life coach, but after an eye-opening discussion, I decided to give her date coaching a chance. I quickly found out there was a big difference between date coaching and life coaching. First of all Julianne's date coaching program is the most comprehensive, holistic coaching program out there. Within weeks I understood my patterns and was able to make changes that positively impacted my outcome. I learned a new communication style and exercised my new found confidence. AND yes, most importantly I did meet a quality man who is truly the love of my life. For me working with Julianne was transformational. I am 43-years-old, never-married woman who is now engaged and finally living the life I always imagined! Thank you, Julianne!
Patricia, 37, Paralegal (Connecticut Date Coaching Client)Patricia and Mark, Married 11/27/21
That’s it, that’s the story! We’re engaged and my heart is full! Mark is the best thing to ever happen to me. I knew when I read about you, you were the one to coach me. The one decision that really changed my life forever! As you said, it wasn't going to be easy, but it was going to be worth it… and it was. I’ll keep you in the loop as our plans unfold and ask you to keep the date open when it’s set!
Erin, 37, Masters Prepared Therapist (Pennsylvania Date Coaching Client)MARRIED!
After spending over half my life with my husband, I found myself suddenly single and bewildered when my marriage fell apart. I’d never dated as an adult and didn’t know where to begin. Julianne’s coaching provided the empathetic guidance and gentle pushing I needed. I worked with her profile writer who crafted a well-written online profile and her photographer’s pictures were beautiful and tasteful. As a result of her work, I went on dates with several men who all met my criteria. I listened to her wise and thoughtful coaching. She never steered me in the wrong direction- I actually had fun dating! But one man stood out. Thanks to Julianne I have found my soul mate! I am forever grateful, Julianne! Thank you!
D.W., 42, (New York, NY Date Coaching Client)MARRIED!!
It's official! We got married yesterday. Our bigger wedding is postponed but happy we exchanged vows yesterday. I'll write more and send you more thanks later but I completely forgot in all the emotion and excitement.
Thank you for being so instrumental in all my life. We would not be married without you. You're the best. You're a godsend. Hope you and your family are healthy and safe.
Thank you for being so instrumental in all my life. We would not be married without you. You're the best. You're a godsend. Hope you and your family are healthy and safe.
Janet, 41, Nurse Practitioner (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)MARRIED!
Without a doubt, my experience with Julianne has been priceless. After turning 40 I decided it was time to take control of my love life. I wasn't going to leave it to chance any longer, it was time to seek help from a professional. While I was initially looking for a matchmaker, after speaking with Julianne I quickly realized that I actually needed date coaching. Truthfully, I had never heard of date coaching before, but took a leap of faith and decided at worst I would learn skills I could apply to future relationship(s). I went into the coaching process with an open mind and let Julianne guide me. It didn't take long for change. With Julianne's guidance it quickly became clear I wasn't making good decisions when it came to the men I was dating. She took me out of my comfort zone, taught me to identify positive relationship behaviors and kept me moving forward. Julianne was firm with her rules, but always listened with an empathetic ear. Through her coaching I met my soul mate. Our relationship is truly effortless, now married, I can't wait to see what our future holds. Had I not worked with Julianne I know I never would have met him. Thank you Julianne!
Bella, 42, Special Education Teacher (New York, NY Date Coaching Client)Married!
I’m so excited to share we are married! Had you not “picked” Tom out of “the trash” and encouraged me to go on a date with him, I would not be married! Having you coach me to step out of my comfort zone and be open to the possibility of what could be, truly changed my life!!! Thank you, Julianne!
Jessie, 32, Art Director (New York, NY Date Coaching Client)MARRIED!
Julianne it’s official, we are married. Who knew a mutual friendship would lead to my hiring you as a dating coach! But after Paula had her success I knew I had to work with you. You changed my life forever! Bill is the love of my life and I can’t thank you enough!
D.S., 44, Executive Manager (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)MARRIED!
“Julianne, I can't thank you enough for our time together. Through your loving guidance and expertise I met the love of my life. Working with you gave me the confidence and courage I needed to step out of my comfort zone and find love again. Something I know I never could have done on my own. Who knew I could find great love in my forties?! You taught me it was possible along with being cherished by a good man. I've never had this in my life before. With your expert coaching, you helped me hone in on what was truly important allowing me to create a clear path to meeting the man of my dreams, who I honestly believe is my soul mate. Julianne, I am forever grateful!!"
John, 35, Real Estate Investor (Connecticut Date Coaching Client)MARRIED!
Julianne, I’m sorry this update is late. A. and I were married last fall and we couldn’t be happier. I am thrilled to be married and I am excited about our future together. Thank you for being instrumental in my success.
Michelle, 46, Marketing Director (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)MARRIED 04/18!!!
After 20 years of marriage, I suddenly found myself single. As a successful professional and Mom living in a rural area of New Jersey, online dating was my only option. After several months of amusing but unsuccessful dating, I sought out a coach. Julianne is incredible. She instantly reassured me that it is possible to meet an accomplished gentleman and that more importantly, I deserved love and happiness. She explained the power of quality photography and a well-crafted profile. The results were immediate; I had more matches than I had time in the beginning. But with Julianne’s guidance via our weekly calls, I had the skills to identify if the matches were going to be a fit. She coached me on how to evaluate profiles, have that initial call and some tips for dating as well. What I really appreciated is Julianne’s “tough love”. She challenged me to look deep on what was important and always pushed me forward. Although I met many quality men along the way, it was due to her pushing me to continue to date that I met my match. Thanks to Julianne’s coaching, I am where I wanted to be, in a loving and committed relationship. Thank You Julianne, for giving me fabulous dating coaching and life-long skills!
Stephanie, 29, Small Business Owner (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)Married Sept, 2019!!!
My experience working with Julianne was invaluable. My confidence had been shattered, I was lost and knew what I was doing wasn't working. Having a loving relationship with a quality man seemed out of reach and like a dream others got to experience. From day one Julianne's coaching was amazing. She was able to help me uncover why I was attracting the type of men who were not aligned with my goals or wanted the same type of relationship I wanted. Julianne not only coached me, but she guided me along into a meaningful relationship. There was some tough love, but her dedication and professionalism let me know that my goals were important and now I am MARRIED to the man of my dreams!!!
Tom, 45, Engineer (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)MARRIED!
Having just come out of a 10-year relationship, the thought of dating was unnerving in many ways. It was clear I was having a hard time understanding women, but with Julianne’s professional insights and advice, I was able to determine if the perfect woman existed for me. Julianne is a consummate professional and yet, her personal style made me feel as if she was the sister I never had. Julianne takes the time to listen and offer real world womanly perspectives on actions and words. Our decisions determine our destiny. By working with Julianne, and being guided by her coaching my destiny is clear: I am engaged and will be married in a few short months time. Thank you Julianne!
Vera, 42, Floral Architect (New York, NY Date Coaching Client)Married 11/6/22!
Julianne, it’s official, we’re ENGAGED! In my wildest dreams, I never imagined meeting someone as wonderful as Peter and it’s all because of YOU!!! Your coaching helped me finally understand why I kept attracting “the same guy” over and over. You helped me to create clarity so I could make room for the one. I have never been happier. Working with you was the best decision I’ve made and I tell everyone! Thank you for being the best coach ever!
Amanda, 44, Pharmaceutical Sales Rep. (NYC Date Coaching Client)ENGAGED!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me find the love and happiness I deserve.
Julianne, I cannot thank you enough for your love, time, and dedication. I truly cannot believe that I'm engaged. If you had told me two years ago that I'd be in this position, I would have never believed it. Your coaching has been nothing short of life-changing for me.
At 42, I had reached a point where I had lost hope and questioned if I'd ever find love. Your coaching and mentoring gave me the tools I needed to make the necessary changes. I can honestly say that without your guidance, I would not be where I am today - happily engaged to a beautiful man who cherishes me for who I am. You helped me feel comfortable being authentic and learn to communicate my needs clearly. A true first for me!
Julianne, you are not just a dating coach; you are a trusted confidant. Your dedication to helping people find love and happiness is truly remarkable, and the impact you have had on my life goes far beyond just dating. Thank you for being such an invaluable source of wisdom and encouragement and for helping me find the love and happiness I deserve.
Julianne, I cannot thank you enough for your love, time, and dedication. I truly cannot believe that I'm engaged. If you had told me two years ago that I'd be in this position, I would have never believed it. Your coaching has been nothing short of life-changing for me.
At 42, I had reached a point where I had lost hope and questioned if I'd ever find love. Your coaching and mentoring gave me the tools I needed to make the necessary changes. I can honestly say that without your guidance, I would not be where I am today - happily engaged to a beautiful man who cherishes me for who I am. You helped me feel comfortable being authentic and learn to communicate my needs clearly. A true first for me!
Julianne, you are not just a dating coach; you are a trusted confidant. Your dedication to helping people find love and happiness is truly remarkable, and the impact you have had on my life goes far beyond just dating. Thank you for being such an invaluable source of wisdom and encouragement and for helping me find the love and happiness I deserve.
Mary, 52, Designer (New York Date Coaching Client)ENGAGED!
Julianne, I can’t thank you enough for our time together. Thank you for your honesty, insight and intelligence.
Through your coaching I’ve become more emotionally honest with myself and it’s carried over into my relationship. I’ve learned to calmly and confidently state my needs and walk away from bad behavior without drama.
Because of you I have met a wonderful man who loves me authentically. I now know that it is ok to set boundaries and as you’ve coached me… have expectations. Who knew I would I ended up getting a roadmap to live by!
Through your coaching I’ve become more emotionally honest with myself and it’s carried over into my relationship. I’ve learned to calmly and confidently state my needs and walk away from bad behavior without drama.
Because of you I have met a wonderful man who loves me authentically. I now know that it is ok to set boundaries and as you’ve coached me… have expectations. Who knew I would I ended up getting a roadmap to live by!
Donna, 50, Special Education Teacher (New York Date Coaching Client)ENGAGED!
Hello Julianne, Here’s a little update! Phil and I will be celebrating our first anniversary on the 24th of October!
Thank you for teaching me I was worthy of love, deserving of love and to never settle. I often refer back to our sessions and reflect on the many conversations we had. In past relationships I'd settle because I didn't feel I was worthy of love and truly didn't appreciate who I was as a woman.
Thank you for your patience and guidance, you helped me understand it was important to value myself, set limits and boundaries, while having expectations of a partner. I’ve planted the seed of love and it's growing beautifully and I've learned not to surround my love with weeds of worry, because I know that often kills a relationship. You taught me how to be a strong woman, while channeling my feminine energy and of course, not step on a man's toes. You helped me to accept that is was okay for me to take the backseat in certain situations and let down my guard. Because of you I’ve learned how to receive. Phil continues to send me notes and presents “just because”, and he's the first person I talk to in the morning and last person at night. He has promised to always put a smile on my face and make me laugh at least once a day and is living up to that promise, even a year later. Thank you, Julianne!
Thank you for teaching me I was worthy of love, deserving of love and to never settle. I often refer back to our sessions and reflect on the many conversations we had. In past relationships I'd settle because I didn't feel I was worthy of love and truly didn't appreciate who I was as a woman.
Thank you for your patience and guidance, you helped me understand it was important to value myself, set limits and boundaries, while having expectations of a partner. I’ve planted the seed of love and it's growing beautifully and I've learned not to surround my love with weeds of worry, because I know that often kills a relationship. You taught me how to be a strong woman, while channeling my feminine energy and of course, not step on a man's toes. You helped me to accept that is was okay for me to take the backseat in certain situations and let down my guard. Because of you I’ve learned how to receive. Phil continues to send me notes and presents “just because”, and he's the first person I talk to in the morning and last person at night. He has promised to always put a smile on my face and make me laugh at least once a day and is living up to that promise, even a year later. Thank you, Julianne!
Sandy, 38, Teacher (Pennsyvania Date Coaching Client)ENGAGED!!!!
We’re engaged Julianne! Things fell into place much quicker than expected and we decided the time was right. I want you to know how much I value our time together. Your coaching was priceless. The choices I was making prior to working with you were just awful. Through your coaching, I was able to realize I deserved so much more and that made all the difference in the world. My fear was paralyzing and I understand now it played into my behavior and how men perceived me. BUT that’s all behind me now. I’ll keep the updates coming.
Marlene, 56, Retired Corporate Exec. (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)Working with Julianne has been one of the best decisions I have made in my life.
From my time as an executive in the corporate world, I learned that if you want something done right, make sure you hire the best!
So, after my 25-year marriage ended, and I was ready to start dating, I knew getting support from an expert would be the best decision to make. I began to do my due diligence and found Julianne.
Without a doubt, Julianne is the best!
It was during our initial conversation that Julianne explained her well-thought-out framework. She explained it was designed to take the guesswork out of things, and that was just what I wanted! I couldn’t believe there was someone out there who offered this type of support.
Honestly, internally I questioned how involved she would be, but she was there, like she said, the entire time. The care, and dedication Julianne offered along with her expertise was more than I could have ever asked for!
In the end, I did meet a wonderful man, we are in love and planning our future, all thanks to Julianne! Working with Julianne has been one of the best decisions I have made in my life. I will be forever grateful for her coaching, guidance, and friendship!
So, after my 25-year marriage ended, and I was ready to start dating, I knew getting support from an expert would be the best decision to make. I began to do my due diligence and found Julianne.
Without a doubt, Julianne is the best!
It was during our initial conversation that Julianne explained her well-thought-out framework. She explained it was designed to take the guesswork out of things, and that was just what I wanted! I couldn’t believe there was someone out there who offered this type of support.
Honestly, internally I questioned how involved she would be, but she was there, like she said, the entire time. The care, and dedication Julianne offered along with her expertise was more than I could have ever asked for!
In the end, I did meet a wonderful man, we are in love and planning our future, all thanks to Julianne! Working with Julianne has been one of the best decisions I have made in my life. I will be forever grateful for her coaching, guidance, and friendship!
Abby, 40, Educator (Connecticut Date Coaching Client)In the end, I met Joe and I’ve never been so happy!
When my divorce was finalized, I decided I was going to take time to focus on myself and my personal growth; and I did just that. I had reached a good place in life and started to feel confident about dating again. However, that’s when I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Until that moment, I was convinced that my divorce was the worst thing I would ever face.
The whole experience was life-changing, leaving me with doubts and a lack of self-confidence. My body was different after Chemo and surgery, and I wasn’t sure I could find someone who would love me and accept me, let alone date me after my diagnosis. However, I felt compelled to try. After talking with a few trusted friends, I reached the conclusion that if I was going to do this, getting support would be the best thing for me to do. I began to research and found Julianne.
What stood out for me was Julianne’s honesty. She was very direct and told me that she could never guarantee I would meet someone and explained that’s true for anyone who worked with her. However, she did say, that if I was open to trying, she would coach me, guide me, and be there to process through experiences. Still, she did guarantee that I would grow from the experience and get my confidence back, and she was right.
Ultimately, what convinced me to work with Julianne were two things, the first was knowing that Julianne has worked with other women who were breast cancer survivors, and the second was her accessibility. I never felt as if Julianne was at a distance because she was with me every step of the way providing the coaching I needed to continue. When I had moments of doubt Julianne was able to lean in and listen without judgment coaching me forward.
In the end, I met Joe and I’ve never been so happy.
Julianne, words cannot adequately convey my gratitude and appreciation for your accessibility and coaching.
The whole experience was life-changing, leaving me with doubts and a lack of self-confidence. My body was different after Chemo and surgery, and I wasn’t sure I could find someone who would love me and accept me, let alone date me after my diagnosis. However, I felt compelled to try. After talking with a few trusted friends, I reached the conclusion that if I was going to do this, getting support would be the best thing for me to do. I began to research and found Julianne.
What stood out for me was Julianne’s honesty. She was very direct and told me that she could never guarantee I would meet someone and explained that’s true for anyone who worked with her. However, she did say, that if I was open to trying, she would coach me, guide me, and be there to process through experiences. Still, she did guarantee that I would grow from the experience and get my confidence back, and she was right.
Ultimately, what convinced me to work with Julianne were two things, the first was knowing that Julianne has worked with other women who were breast cancer survivors, and the second was her accessibility. I never felt as if Julianne was at a distance because she was with me every step of the way providing the coaching I needed to continue. When I had moments of doubt Julianne was able to lean in and listen without judgment coaching me forward.
In the end, I met Joe and I’ve never been so happy.
Julianne, words cannot adequately convey my gratitude and appreciation for your accessibility and coaching.
June, 67, retired, (No. Carolina Date Coaching Client)I genuinely thought my husband would be the only man I would ever love.
It had been several years since my husband died, and I was finally ready to start dating. My children were in full support but were concerned about my safety and using the online sites. It was my oldest daughter Meg who first reached out to Julianne and made the connection.
I sincerely had no idea what to expect but without a doubt, if it wasn’t for Julianne, I know the entire experience would have been ten times harder. Julianne gave me a road map and held my hand as I walked it. I thought I was going it get pointers and guidance, but as I started to date, I realized she was giving me so much more.
For the first time in my life, at 66, I began to use my voice, communicate my needs, and get clarity around what would make me happy! Julianne was masterful at helping me push past moments that made me feel uncomfortable. She helped me open up to new possibilities. Even though there were moments I wanted to stop, with Julianne’s coaching I stayed the course and found David. I genuinely thought my husband would be the only man I would ever love, but when I found David, I knew that I was one of the lucky ones to find love again.
Thank you, Julianne!
I sincerely had no idea what to expect but without a doubt, if it wasn’t for Julianne, I know the entire experience would have been ten times harder. Julianne gave me a road map and held my hand as I walked it. I thought I was going it get pointers and guidance, but as I started to date, I realized she was giving me so much more.
For the first time in my life, at 66, I began to use my voice, communicate my needs, and get clarity around what would make me happy! Julianne was masterful at helping me push past moments that made me feel uncomfortable. She helped me open up to new possibilities. Even though there were moments I wanted to stop, with Julianne’s coaching I stayed the course and found David. I genuinely thought my husband would be the only man I would ever love, but when I found David, I knew that I was one of the lucky ones to find love again.
Thank you, Julianne!
Betsy, 53, Biotech Executive (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)I was so lucky to find Julianne!!
As a busy executive, I was immediately impressed with her high standards and professional approach – all delivered with a warm and personal touch. Julianne spent the time and effort to get to know me and helped me uncover what I truly needed from a partner. Finally, I was gaining clarity and awareness around dating, understanding what I needed from a long-term relationship.
Julianne has been on this journey with me every step of the way … all with grace, sincerity and a perfect touch of humor. I’ve grown so much and have a new confidence about myself and the entire dating experience. I’m also happy to report that I met a wonderful man who really is my perfect match!
Julianne has been on this journey with me every step of the way … all with grace, sincerity and a perfect touch of humor. I’ve grown so much and have a new confidence about myself and the entire dating experience. I’m also happy to report that I met a wonderful man who really is my perfect match!
Janelle, 56, Interior Designer (New York, NY Date Coaching Client)Moved in together! I’ve never experienced a love like this!
Once again I am sending a HUGE THANK YOU!!! M. and I have moved in together and are truly SOULMATES! I never could have successfully navigated the dating world without you. I am so grateful; words can’t adequately express my gratitude. I was so lucky to find you and have you in my corner. I didn't know, what I didn’t know… I grew so much through your coaching, having you help me shed the fear I was harboring made all the difference.
Michael, 59, Business Owner (New York Date Coaching Client)Here’s another endorsement for your skills and knowhow.
As a mature man in my late 50’s the last thing I ever thought I’d find myself doing is dating online. My first few attempts were discouraging and unpleasant. Then, at the suggestion of a colleague I employed Julianne. From day one, Julianne made the process fun, but most of all, Julianne gave me hope. I was beginning to feel like a lost cause, but Julianne gave me the confidence I needed to get out and try again. Julianne has what I call “the magic sauce”. I went from being invisible online to having the pick of the litter. Her online marketing, coupled with Julianne’s coaching is the magic sauce. I’ve grown from the experience and learned about myself. However, best of all I met Joyce. Now I know what it means to have a soul mate.
Julianne, you are the best!
Julianne, you are the best!
Nicole, 49, Forensic Accountant (New York, NY Date Coaching Client)Thank you again for your wisdom and coaching!
Just a quick update Julianne, Cliff and I are still together. It’s been three years and we’re as happy as ever! I’m still practicing good communication and we respond well to each other’s needs. Your work here is done! Lol! Thank you again for your wisdom and coaching!
Lori, 60, Sales and Marketing (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)After speaking with her on the phone and meeting with her, I was extremely encouraged and I knew she could help me to be successful in this process.
I was divorced three years ago and determined I wanted to wait a year to date. I decided it was necessary for me to build my own life as a single person after being married for 25 years. During this time, I spoke to a lot of women around my age about what dating was like at this time in our lives. I quickly realized that the landscape of the dating world had changed dramatically during the time I had been married. After trying the old-fashioned way of meeting someone (through friends and family) I concluded I needed to try something more. I knew that I needed to jump into the world of online dating, but I was very nervous about it and had no idea how to navigate it. It was all so new and overwhelming… enter Julianne to rescue me!
Three different people on separate occasions told me about Julianne. Every single one thought she was wonderful and that the experience of working with her was very, very helpful AND they all had success stories! After speaking with her on the phone and meeting with her, I was extremely encouraged and I knew she could help me to be successful in this process.
The first thing she did was to market me effectively online, which included a dynamic profile, with beautiful pictures. I didn't know this was such a crucial element to successfully dating online. Once I entered the online dating world she was a tremendous support and continued to remind me that this was a marathon not a sprint. Whenever I had a question, or I was just feeling overwhelmed by the process, Julianne was always there encouraging me. Her guidance through the longer-term relationships that I'd had was so helpful.
NOW, I am one of Julianne’s success stories! I am in a relationship with a really wonderful man. It’s been four months and thanks to Julianne I can recognize the real potential of this relationship. Even now she reminds me to take it slow and stay in the moment. I know she is right, so I think about it every time I am tempted to push the relationship along a little bit. I am very grateful for Julianne's guidance, feedback and wisdom and I would recommend her to anybody who is entering the world of dating and wants to be successful!
Thank you Julianne!
Three different people on separate occasions told me about Julianne. Every single one thought she was wonderful and that the experience of working with her was very, very helpful AND they all had success stories! After speaking with her on the phone and meeting with her, I was extremely encouraged and I knew she could help me to be successful in this process.
The first thing she did was to market me effectively online, which included a dynamic profile, with beautiful pictures. I didn't know this was such a crucial element to successfully dating online. Once I entered the online dating world she was a tremendous support and continued to remind me that this was a marathon not a sprint. Whenever I had a question, or I was just feeling overwhelmed by the process, Julianne was always there encouraging me. Her guidance through the longer-term relationships that I'd had was so helpful.
NOW, I am one of Julianne’s success stories! I am in a relationship with a really wonderful man. It’s been four months and thanks to Julianne I can recognize the real potential of this relationship. Even now she reminds me to take it slow and stay in the moment. I know she is right, so I think about it every time I am tempted to push the relationship along a little bit. I am very grateful for Julianne's guidance, feedback and wisdom and I would recommend her to anybody who is entering the world of dating and wants to be successful!
Thank you Julianne!
JD, 31, (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)Julianne’s not only extremely generous with her time, but she genuinely cares about her clients.
I was struggling to navigate the dating landscape of today, and decided I should look for a professional to advise me. I did a lot of research, and when I saw Julianne's experience, credentials and successes, I knew she could guide me appropriately. From day one Julianne believed in me when I've had difficulty believing in myself. Julianne helped push me out of my comfort zone, while guiding me away from any self-limiting beliefs. Julianne’s not only extremely generous with her time, but she genuinely cares about her clients. Julianne was with me every step of the way. I'm so lucky to have found Julianne and I can't imagine working with anyone else to support me in finding my soul mate.
Hope 47, Respiratory Therapist (New York Date Coaching Client)Now I am in a wonderful relationship and we are planning our wedding!
After an extremely difficult divorce I never thought I’d be ready to date again. Then, through a series of events I met Julianne. I had no idea there was someone out there who could help me reenter the dating world and create a clear path for finding love. Julianne is like no one I’ve met before. She impressed me with her integrity, sincerity, and passion. She provided me with the support I needed. I trusted her and she did not let me down. Through this experience I have grown more than I ever thought I could. Julianne taught me the importance of setting boundaries and how to identify the behaviors of a good partner. I began dating like a mature adult. Now I am in a wonderful relationship and we are planning our wedding!
Stephen, 68, Medical Doctor (Connecticut Date Coaching Client)I thought Matchmaking was the answer Julianne, however, it was coaching.
It’s amazing. It’s been a year and Sheila is still the most beautiful woman in the world! I can’t get over how kind and loving she is towards me and how compatible we remain. I thought Matchmaking was the answer Julianne, however, it was coaching. So happy you were able to help me gain clarity and understand what it was I was missing in my past relationships. I’m not missing it anymore. Thank you, Julianne.
Janice, 54, Vet Tech (Pennsylvania Date Coaching Client)After talking with Julianne I quickly knew she was the one to coach me
Sometimes you need someone to help you get out of your own way. After years of making one dating mistake after another I had reached a tipping point of frustration and disappointment. That’s when I decided to look for someone who had the expertise, knowledge and experience to help me. Thank goodness I found Julianne. It was an easy decision. After talking with Julianne I quickly knew she was the one to coach me. Today I am in a relationship with the love of my life. He treats me with respect and I’m happier than I could have ever imagined. I am in love for the first time in many years and it feels wonderful! Thank you Julianne I know I couldn’t have done it without you!
N.T., 56, Business Exec (New York Date Coaching Client)I found my soul mate because of Julianne! Today I’m in love with a sensitive, loving man, who loves me back
It’s a great feeling to be in love and to be loved in return! Julianne’s coaching has been priceless. She was always there to provide support, and was generous with her time. She provided me with guidance, and encouraged me to look at things differently. She also challenged me. There were times when I was out of my comfort zone and wanted to stop, but she continued to reassure me. Through her process I became more open minded in dating different prospects. The journey was a terrific one for me, and I’ve totally grown from it! At times it was overwhelming, but Julianne gave me the confidence to continue, and helped me enjoy the journey. Her words of encouragement kept me focused and now I have the relationship I’ve always dreamed about!
Wilma, 52, MSW (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)Julianne Cantarella has been my Date Coaching angel!
After struggling to navigate the dating landscape of today, I decided it was time to find a professional who could help me. From day one I could tell Julianne completely understood my frustrations around dating and she had the solution I needed.
Julianne is a true professional, and an empathic person. Her insights and skills that have helped guide me in the right direction when choosing potential dates. She has taught me the seriousness of having expectations, as well as setting limits and boundaries. Most importantly Julianne has taught me the importance of not compromising myself or my values in anyway.
Julianne reviews your experiences in real time, processing and giving you the feedback needed to make better choices when it comes to dating, relationships and a partner. I was excited to work with her and have grown so much! Thank you, Julianne
Julianne is a true professional, and an empathic person. Her insights and skills that have helped guide me in the right direction when choosing potential dates. She has taught me the seriousness of having expectations, as well as setting limits and boundaries. Most importantly Julianne has taught me the importance of not compromising myself or my values in anyway.
Julianne reviews your experiences in real time, processing and giving you the feedback needed to make better choices when it comes to dating, relationships and a partner. I was excited to work with her and have grown so much! Thank you, Julianne
Tonya, 58, Insurance Broker (New York Date Coaching Client)Thank you, Julianne, I know without your help I would still be single!
After my 30-year marriage ended I was unbelievably overwhelmed with the idea of dating. Truthfully, I had no idea what I was doing; the last time I dated I was in my 20’s. I decided very quickly that if I met someone organically, that would be great, but if not, I’d have no problem being alone. After almost two years I began to seriously think reconsider that decision. I realized that for me being in a relationship was something I wanted. I tried to go it alone and found I was making one mistake after another. Then at a networking event I ran into an acquaintance. She had been divorced around the same time I was and we would always compare notes about the dating landscape when we ran into each other. However, now she was blissfully happy in a wonderful relationship. When I asked her how she met him, she was happy to share her experience with Julianne. The first thing I remember she said about Julianne is, “Julianne is a Class Act”, and after working with Julianne, I wholeheartedly agree! Julianne is a Class Act! After grilling my friend and getting all the details I decided to call Julianne. Now I am one of Julianne’s success stories, in love with a true gentleman and thanks to her, I am the happiest I’ve been in a very long time. Her Coaching is priceless and her relationship insights spot on. I now have the pleasure of recommending her to every single lady I know who could benefit from her help!
Jeannie, 56, Marketing Executive (Connecticut Date Coaching Client)Julianne helped me step out of my comfort zone and encouraged me to be open to the possibilities of what could be!
Working with Julianne was truly the best decision of my life. I reached out to Julianne after reading about her in a local magazine. I never thought of myself as someone who needed coaching, never mind date coaching!!! I was confident that I had it all together and it was actually the men who were the problem!!! As a very successful businesswoman I took pride in being able to engage all types of people, men and women alike. However, in my dating life I found I was not attracting the type of men I thought I deserved. Julianne helped me step out of my comfort zone and encouraged me to be open to the possibilities of what could be. Over and over again, Julianne helped me create a clear vision of the type of relationship I wanted and as she said, “deserved”. All the while reminding me that the vision of the man I had in my head might be different than who I ultimately meet. And in the end she was absolutely right! I am now in the healthiest relationship of my life and I couldn't be happier.
If you are ready to meet the love of your life and willing to be open to her coaching, Julianne will completely and fully guide you with her tough love balanced by her compassion. Julianne will be your guide, your mentor and a your biggest advocate!
If you are ready to meet the love of your life and willing to be open to her coaching, Julianne will completely and fully guide you with her tough love balanced by her compassion. Julianne will be your guide, your mentor and a your biggest advocate!
L. R. 47, Masters Prepared Social Worker (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)I whole-heartedly recommend working with Julianne. Her coaching, knowledge and advice are priceless!
After coming out of yet another unhealthy relationship, the thought of going back to online dating was depressing and overwhelming. Knowing I couldn’t do the same thing again and expect different results, something had to change. Julianne came into my life at just the right time — when I was ready —and I’m so happy she did!! I have nothing but praise and thankfulness for Julianne!
From the beginning, Julianne was with me every step of the way. From her in-depth assessment —which forced me to look within and take a personal inventory —to the pre and post dating calls, I felt as if I had a friend, confidant, and therapist who had my back on this emotional dating journey. Not to mention a Public Relations manager who set me apart from everyone else online. Starting on day one, I had more responses than ever, and all commented about my fantastic profile and pictures. Julianne helped me sort through this overwhelming pile to find the “quality” guys who really are still out there. Over the several months we worked together, Julianne helped me to realize finding love can be a process that takes time — not easy for this instant gratification kind of girl!! She wasn’t afraid to tell it like she saw it, and pushed me to date men I may not have in the past. With her guidance, I was able to get out of my own way so I could see what was really important in a long-term relationship. She consistently ingrained in me that I deserved to be happy and to have a relationship where I felt cherished, loved and adored! And for the first time in my life, I have found that!!! I would not trade this experience for the world.
From the beginning, Julianne was with me every step of the way. From her in-depth assessment —which forced me to look within and take a personal inventory —to the pre and post dating calls, I felt as if I had a friend, confidant, and therapist who had my back on this emotional dating journey. Not to mention a Public Relations manager who set me apart from everyone else online. Starting on day one, I had more responses than ever, and all commented about my fantastic profile and pictures. Julianne helped me sort through this overwhelming pile to find the “quality” guys who really are still out there. Over the several months we worked together, Julianne helped me to realize finding love can be a process that takes time — not easy for this instant gratification kind of girl!! She wasn’t afraid to tell it like she saw it, and pushed me to date men I may not have in the past. With her guidance, I was able to get out of my own way so I could see what was really important in a long-term relationship. She consistently ingrained in me that I deserved to be happy and to have a relationship where I felt cherished, loved and adored! And for the first time in my life, I have found that!!! I would not trade this experience for the world.
L.G. 52, Masters Prepared Counselor (New Jersey Date Coaching Client) I never imagined I would find my soul mate!
When I first spoke with Julianne I sensed very strongly her profound kindness, patience and sincerity. As we got to know each other and work together, I came to feel as though she was my guide and mentor in a land that was unfamiliar and scary to me but well known and comfortable to her, aka "the modern dating world." Julianne never wavered in her staunch support of my personal dating journey and me. Her advice was invaluable and I remember thinking many times, "Wow, I wish I had known this all of this years ago."
I am thrilled to report I am now in a relationship, which is more wonderful than anything I could have imagined. Ironically, the man I am with fits none of the criteria, which I set for dating. Throughout our coaching Julianne would always remind me to “be open, because we never know who will be your perfect match” and she was absolutely right!
Thank you, Julianne. I know for certain that I would not be where I am in my life right now if it weren't for you. I never imagined I would find my soul mate!
I am thrilled to report I am now in a relationship, which is more wonderful than anything I could have imagined. Ironically, the man I am with fits none of the criteria, which I set for dating. Throughout our coaching Julianne would always remind me to “be open, because we never know who will be your perfect match” and she was absolutely right!
Thank you, Julianne. I know for certain that I would not be where I am in my life right now if it weren't for you. I never imagined I would find my soul mate!
M.C. 46 Medical Health Professional (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)I am very grateful for her help in this process, and for the relationship skills I learned from her
I reached out to Julianne prior to moving from Chicago to New Jersey. Being new to the area and in my forties, I wanted help navigating the dating scene. I haven’t always made the best choices in my romantic relationships, and I would jokingly ask my friends to pick someone for me. Working with Julianne was like having that close friend who really understands you inside and out, to help you to find a great match. I have never dated so much in my life and, in the past, I would find someone “good enough” and spend the next few months/years with him. Julianne helped me get out of my comfort zone and take my time to explore many options that I would never before have considered. In fact, I met a wonderful man who is someone I would not have gone on a first date with had I been approaching this process on my own. Julianne helped me figure out what I really wanted in a relationship (which weren’t the main things that I initially thought that I wanted) and she had me date people long enough to see their behavior over time before I entered into a relationship. Julianne is brilliant, respectful, open-minded, direct, generous with her time and compassionate. I am very grateful for her help in this process, and for the relationship skills I learned from her. Thank you Julianne!
J.L., 61, Small Business Owner (New York Date Coaching Client)You were always there to guide me and provided much needed encouragement when I became overwhelmed with the journey
Julianne, I want to thank you for your advice, assistance and guidance throughout the process of my returning to the dating world. I have to say that I have grown so much through this experience and I would like to tell you that I am dating my perfect match!
It was absolutely amazing the number of quality suitors that reached out to me online. I can say with out hesitation I did not have one bad date! You taught me to be selective, set limits and boundaries and imparted information I need to use the dating websites in a manner that helped me find the right gentleman. You were always there to guide me and provided much needed encouragement when I became overwhelmed with the journey. Thank you so much for everything. Your guidance and support throughout this process has been priceless!
It was absolutely amazing the number of quality suitors that reached out to me online. I can say with out hesitation I did not have one bad date! You taught me to be selective, set limits and boundaries and imparted information I need to use the dating websites in a manner that helped me find the right gentleman. You were always there to guide me and provided much needed encouragement when I became overwhelmed with the journey. Thank you so much for everything. Your guidance and support throughout this process has been priceless!
Stephanie, 32, Lawyer (New York Date Coaching Client) Julianne's coaching helped me find the answers
If it wasn’t for Julianne I would still be single. My dream has always been to find someone special and fall in love. I honestly thought it would just happen naturally; it was happening that way for all of my friends. One, by one they were getting married and I had more special occasion dressed than I cared to own. I turned 29 and called Julianne. I had already gone down the date coaching road before, but I believed Julianne had something else to offer. AND I WAS RIGHT. Julianne's coaching helped me find the answers. Knowing she was behind me with her expertise gave me the confidence I needed to succeed. Almost two years later I am still in love with Jeff, he has all the qualities I was searching for in a man. He is my soul mate! The future is clear and we are talking about marriage.
Toni, 46, Art Therapist (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)Married Spring of 2014!
Hello Julianne! I am writing to you with wonderful news! I am planning my wedding! Pete and I will be married in 2014 and I couldn’t have done it without you. Clearly your coaching was what I needed and the pictures taken by your photographer were awesome. Thank you for helping me move out of my comfort zone, create opportunity and yes, try online dating. Who knew I would meet someone as wonderful as Pete online, he turned out to be exactly what I was looking for!
Thank you Julianne.
D., 46, Paralegal (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)I was shocked by the immediate positive response I had
I had been online for years with no success. Then I met Julianne. She was giving a workshop on dating and the Internet. I was struck by the amount of experience and knowledge she had on the subject. When she showed the before and after pictures of her current clients and explained the success they were having I knew I had to work with her. From day one Julianne made the coaching process fun and easy. Not only did she explain what I should and should not wear to the photoshoot with her photographer, but she came to the photoshoot to make sure all went well. After a careful selection of appropriate dating sites, I uploaded my new pictures and newly written profile. I was shocked by the immediate positive response I had. During our weekly coaching sessions, Julianne guided me through the dating process, helping me uncover and move past behaviors that once would have sabotaged my relationship. Since I started working with Julianne things have changed greatly for me. I don’t just think about dating, I am dating and have even met someone special!
J.A., 49, Nurse Practitioner (New York Date Coaching Client)I knew she was the hand that I needed to walk me through the process
On an intellectual level I knew it was the right time to get back in the dating scene, but on an emotional level the fear was paralyzing. I had started to look for a Matchmaker / Dating Coach when I found that Julianne was presenting a Dating workshop in my town and that was where I met her. I knew immediately that she understood my fear and anxiety around dating. I knew she was the hand that I needed to walk me through the process. Her professional insight motivated me to break down the barriers that I had created and she encouraged me to open myself up to new possibilities. Above all, through this experience I felt that I was more than a client. She was caring, considerate and always had my best interest in mind. This is not just a business to Julianne, this is her calling. I suggest don’t try it alone, call Julianne!
Mona, 53, Occupational Therapist (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)I had no idea what a healthy relationship looked like. Then I met Julianne, and all that changed.
I knew I had to make a change, because what I was doing wasn’t working. I realized my dating skills were very rusty and I seemed to meet one wrong man after another. I was not getting any results on line and wasn’t sure where or how to meet a quality man. Truthfully, I had no idea what a healthy relationship looked like. Then I met Julianne, and all that changed. I found out about her Find LOVE Now! program, I took a leap and signed on. Julianne personally guided me through every step. Although, I used a professional photographer in the past for my online photos they were really not the quality we needed. My first step was professional photos with her photographer and a spruced up profile. The change was immediate; I got many more emails than ever before. She coached me to get out there, become more social and stay the course. She even connected me with appropriate singles events for my age and interests. It was at one of the singles events that Julianne recommended, that I met a quality man who I am currently still dating. It was not easy to get out there after working all day and taking care of a house and family, but with Julianne’s coaching it ultimately paid off. I am glad that I could follow through and be successful.
Susan, 74, Retired Accountant (New York Date Coaching Client)She has given me the assurance to move forward with confidence!
I had been happily married for 48 years when my husband died. I was 73 and widowed for 4 years when I decided I needed more from life. I wanted the excitement that a relationship could bring, but didn’t know where to begin or how to get myself out there again. I tried different ways to meet men that didn’t work, so I thought I would give online dating a try. However, I had no idea where to begin. I lacked the knowledge and information needed to get myself online. I had not dated in half a century and lacked the confidence that I could still attract a man, but I wanted to give it my best shot. Then I learned about Julianne and her Boutique Business. When I heard all the wonderful services she offered and how she would hold my hand through the process of getting out there again I knew I had found my answer. Through her coaching Julianne guided me through the dating process, giving me direction and answers. She provided me with support and encouragement. She wrote an inviting profile and clearly outlined the most appropriate dating sites for my situation. I worked with her Photographer who was very charming and the pictures were beautiful. Julianne gave me advice about what to wear and came to the shoot to ensure I would have the best results. The Photo Shoot was never rushed and many pictures were taken to provide a broad variety for the final selection. In the end I have had wonderful results and have been dating many interesting men. Working with Julianne was the best decision I have ever made. She has given me assurance to move forward with confidence. In the end I have found there are many sincere, interesting men out there worth meeting and I am having a lot of fun!
J.L., Business Executive (New Jersey Date Coaching Client) She turned a skeptic into a believer that you can have a loving relationship - a successful career and fabulous life
As a business professional, unsure of navigating new territory - I hired an expert. Being very serious about my relationship search, I interviewed and hired Julianne who is absolutely amazing. She was frank about the changes that needed to be made and was there every step of the way. This was especially important since I had not dated in over 30 years. The journey included a complete makeover, a fantastically marketed online dating presence (to finding a great guy, which I thought, would never happen at my age). She turned a skeptic into a believer that you can have a loving relationship - a successful career and fabulous life.
Thanks Julianne, you are the best!
Thanks Julianne, you are the best!
S. F., 44, Business Consultant (New York Date Coaching Client)Without Julianne’s help I never would have met my soul mate!
Is there really someone out there for me? That was the question I asked myself after my divorce. Working full time and raising two young kids made it very difficult to meet anyone, so I gave online dating a try. After having no success, a friend suggested that I contact Julianne for coaching. What a difference that made!
Julianne listened to me as I explained what I was looking for in my next relationship. Everything I said was taken seriously—and I could tell Julianne was the one to help, and I chose to work with her. Julianne then pushed me out of my comfort zone. Julianne’s profile writer rewrote my profile, and we replaced my profile pictures with those from the photo shoot, which was a lot of fun. These photos changed how I portrayed myself online, and to my surprise, —even building up how I saw myself improving my self-esteem.
Just as she assured me it would happen, we got immediate responses. From there, she coached me on how to respond to emails, and before and after my calls and dates with men. Julianne was with me every step of the way with her expertise, confidence, and friendship guiding me through the calls, emails, and dates. Her guidance helped me understand what men expected or liked to hear, but more importantly I learned to accept compliments and the respectful treatment I deserved.
I have now been in a loving relationship for eight months and look forward to the future with my love. I enjoy keeping Julianne updated on our relationship, as a testimonial that her coaching has definitely worked.
Without Julianne’s help I never would have met my soul mate!
Julianne listened to me as I explained what I was looking for in my next relationship. Everything I said was taken seriously—and I could tell Julianne was the one to help, and I chose to work with her. Julianne then pushed me out of my comfort zone. Julianne’s profile writer rewrote my profile, and we replaced my profile pictures with those from the photo shoot, which was a lot of fun. These photos changed how I portrayed myself online, and to my surprise, —even building up how I saw myself improving my self-esteem.
Just as she assured me it would happen, we got immediate responses. From there, she coached me on how to respond to emails, and before and after my calls and dates with men. Julianne was with me every step of the way with her expertise, confidence, and friendship guiding me through the calls, emails, and dates. Her guidance helped me understand what men expected or liked to hear, but more importantly I learned to accept compliments and the respectful treatment I deserved.
I have now been in a loving relationship for eight months and look forward to the future with my love. I enjoy keeping Julianne updated on our relationship, as a testimonial that her coaching has definitely worked.
Without Julianne’s help I never would have met my soul mate!
Mary, 48, Executive Business Manager (New Jersey Date Coaching Client)I’ve learned so much about myself in this process and it’s profoundly helped me in my approach to meeting quality, serious-minded men
Having Julianne as my coach has really transformed my approach to dating. Julianne is really sharp and exceptional in her keen understanding of what it takes to find and cultivate a meaningful relationship. I got a wake-up call in my narrow approach of selecting only certain types of men. Julianne inspired me to stretch my boundaries and be more open-minded. She helped me create a great online profile and get beautiful professional pictures taken. From there, Julianne patiently guided me through the entire communication process, from online to offline interactions. Which are both so crucial in making or breaking dating opportunities. I’ve learned so much about myself in this process and it’s profoundly helped me in my approach to meeting quality, serious-minded men. I was able to regularly touch base with Julianne and she provided great insight on my dates. Julianne is a warm individual who truly wants her clients to be successful in meeting the one. She’s gone above and beyond in helping me. Thank you Julianne!!!
Lia, 65, Teacher (New York Date Coaching Client)I am so happy to be in love again!
Julianne I can’t believe this has happened! I never thought I would feel this way again. N. is understanding and caring and so far, the “healthiest” man I have ever encountered. Our relationship is effortless and we really enjoy our time together. Thank you for all your help and guidance. Your coaching made this journey fun and easy.
Christopher, 51, Editor (Connecticut Date Coaching Client)I would recommend Julianne as a relationship expert 100% to friends, family or anyone who wants to date confidently and find their true soul mate
I am very pleased with the coaching Julianne has given me. I was searching for help and guidance in my dating life. I am divorced and have not dated since I was 22. I lacked knowledge and direction and she knew exactly how to help me. Julianne has the experience and expertise to help anyone who is lacking the confidence, knowledge or courage to explore the dating world alone.
Tammi, 43, Project Manager (Pennsylvania Date Coaching Client)With Julianne’s advice and guidance, I now have a positive outlook on dating during my 40s.
From choosing the right photo or writing a profile that truly reflects me. Julianne’s coaching and support has helped me take control of my dating experience and eventually helped me find a great guy whom I’m currently dating!